Rabbi's Weekly Message
She listens!
July 18, 2025
For years Chavie was asked “are you Chaim’s wife”?. The tables have turned and now, wherever I travel, people approach me and say “Oh my gosh, are you Chavie’s husband? I enjoy listening to her podcast and watching her stories on Instagram…”. It’s a sense of pride to see your spouse bring awareness on important topics and help so many people. Earlier this week while dining at the mouthwatering Sato Fusion in Minneapolis, a fellow from Lakewood, New Jersey walked up to us and expressed his gratitude for Chavie’s teachings and, surprisingly, paid our check. With Chavie’s birthday coming up on Monday, the 25th of Tammuz, I am pondering her uniqueness, and I think it boils down to “listening”.

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I think of myself as a juggler: leading a Jewish community with my sushi loving husband, caring for my five rambunctious kids (who are adopted), and living in the Wild West of Montana, where it’s ALWAYS winter (or so it feels). It’s an art to be juggler, to live our fullest potential and still have very real lives. Not the perfect, glossy, manicured ones we so often encounter. I am here to be real.

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